By: Amy Stello Tolkien's essay "On Fairy-Stories" connected with my own personal philosophy concerning children. When Tolkien speaks of children and their "literary capacity," he never undercuts his estimation of their intellect. He speaks of how Andrew Lang believes that children have difficulty distinguishing between fact and fiction. Tolkien believes that this is a faulty assumption about the nature of children. He writes, "The appearance that it is so is often, I think, an adult illusion produced by children's humility, their lack of critical experience and vocabulary, and their voracity (proper to their rapid growth)." Tolkien also does not even remember his own childhood being own of not understanding the difference between fact and fiction.
For my own self, I have to agree with Tolkien. I do not remember ever having memories where I could not distinguish between stories and reality. In relation to children, I also believe in the importance of treating children as rational beings who can comprehend ideas. Tolkien points out the "lacking" capacities of children, and these are the ones which need to be remembered when addressing children. Explaining something so that a child could understand does not mean speaking condescendingly, but it means utilizing the means which the child can understand.
The way that both Tolkien and Lewis appreciate children and their thoughts without degrading their thoughts makes me truly enjoy reading their thoughts.